5 Ways to Get Rid of Debt Stress
UpdatedMar 28, 2025
- Take care of yourself—debt stress can impact your mental and physical health.
- You can lessen debt stress by building a budget and creating a debt repayment plan.
- Consider talking to your lenders to get temporary debt relief or negotiate a debt settlement.
If you're feeling stressed or anxious about your debt, you're not alone. Studies have shown that over half of U.S. adults in debt say they regularly deal with debt stress.
While debt stress may be common, taking control of your finances can help you banish it. Here are a few tips for managing your debt and getting rid of debt stress.
Understanding debt stress
Debt stress is anxiety, fear, or worry caused by debt. You may be worried about paying off existing debt, taking on future debt, or both.
Stress from debt can negatively impact your mental and physical health. Excessive stress can lead to sleep loss, higher blood pressure, and even respiratory problems. Debt stress can also impact decision-making abilities and cause problems in close relationships. Let's look at how you can reduce that stress.
How to cope with debt stress
1. Upgrade your financial skills
Knowledge is power, especially when it comes to taking charge of your finances and debt. Happily, you have a ton of great financial education resources right at your fingertips.
Most banks offer financial education resources to help you learn key skills like budgeting, saving, and using credit. You can also find a lot of quality information online, though it’s good to make sure you're looking at reputable sources.
Tip: Social media isn't always the best place for sound financial advice.
You can also hire a professional to help you learn money management skills. An Accredited Financial Counselor (AFC) or Certified Financial Planner (CFP) can be a helpful resource who will keep your needs at the forefront. You can also consider credit card counseling for managing credit.
2. Organize your finances and build a budget
Everything is more stressful when you can’t see exactly what's going on. A great first step in tackling your debt stress is to review and organize your finances so you can see the big picture.
Once you know where you stand, it's time to get everything under control. This starts with building a budget.
A good budget helps you figure out your financial priorities and goals, and shows you how to reach them. Think of a budget as your guide for getting rid of debt stress forever.
What tools you use are up to you. Here are a few options:
Use a notebook or a journal. This is a good option for people who focus better without a screen in front of them, or who like the tactile nature of writing things down. The ability to color-code a journal can also help more visual organizers.
Create a digital spreadsheet. A spreadsheet can be an excellent way to organize finances, and built-in tools like calculators and data sorting can be helpful additions.
Download a mobile budgeting app. Lots of great budgeting apps are available for smartphones and tablets. Many can interface with your bank and credit accounts to automatically import and categorize your transactions.
3. Set aside an emergency fund
It's not always the current problem that causes your debt stress—sometimes it's the thought of the next one. More than half of Americans wouldn't pay for an emergency expense from savings, but would rely on cutting expenses, using credit cards, or borrowing money.
Most experts recommend having an emergency fund set aside for just such occasions. How much you should have varies by who you ask, but even a few hundred dollars set aside for an unexpected car repair or vet visit can help relieve a lot of potential debt stress.
There's also an app for that: You can find mobile apps for saving money that offer automated savings tools for set-it-and-forget-it solutions to building up your emergency fund or other savings.
4. Create a debt repayment plan
Paying off your debt can eliminate most or sometimes all of your debt stress. With your budget in hand, decide on a debt repayment method that fits your budget and needs:
Debt snowball: Pay off the smallest outstanding balance first, then the next smallest balance. With the snowball method, you might pay off the low-balance items in a short time, and feel inspired to keep chipping away at your debt.
Debt avalanche: Pay off the debt with the highest interest rate first and work your way down to the lower-interest debts. The avalanche method can save you interest costs over time, but if your debt balance is large, it could take a while before you reach your first milestone.
Max to min: Pay off your maxed out credit cards first to lower your credit utilization (how much of your total credit you're using). Like with the debt avalanche, it might take a while to pay off your first debt, but your credit score could bounce back sooner than other methods.
No matter which method you choose, always make at least your minimum payment on time every month to keep your accounts in good standing.
5. Talk to your lenders
If you're facing financial hardship from losing a job or other life events, speak with your lenders. Check if you can get a more favorable repayment plan until you sort things out.
Your lenders may offer hardship programs with benefits like lower monthly payments or a reduced interest rate for a time. This can help you stay ahead of your debt, and even pay it off faster.
Tips for managing your debt to reduce debt stress
There are a lot of financial tools and products you can use to simplify, consolidate, or reduce your debt. Consider these options.
Debt consolidation loan
A debt consolidation loan is when you use one large loan to pay off multiple smaller debts.
Consolidation can help relieve debt stress by putting all of your debt in one place, giving you just one monthly bill and due date to manage. You may also qualify for a lower interest rate on the new loan, which reduces your monthly payment and overall cost to repay your debt.
You may also decide to get a longer repayment term on your consolidation loan. This could lower your monthly payment, but it means you make payments for longer, and it may cost more in the end.
Credit card balance transfer
A credit card balance transfer is when you move credit card debt from one card account to another. This can be a strategy for consolidating debt, but it's primarily used to reduce interest rates.
Balance transfers are especially useful if you qualify for a card with an offer for a reduced APR (annual percentage rate) on transferred balances. Some balance transfer offers go as low as 0% APR for a set period.
You can use a balance transfer offer to pay off debt faster, or to park some debt at no or low interest while you focus on paying off more expensive debt. Just watch out for the balance transfer fee—most credit cards charge 3% to 5% of the total transferred balance for each transfer.
Home equity loan or line of credit
Your home equity is the market value of your home minus your mortgage balance. For example, if your home’s value is $250,000 and you have a mortgage balance of $150,000, your equity is $100,000.
Some lenders let you borrow against your home equity in the form of a home equity loan or line of credit, which can then be used to consolidate debt. Home equity loans also typically have lower interest rates than credit cards or personal loans.
How much you can borrow depends on your equity and your qualifications (income, credit, existing debt, etc.), but it can be up to 90% of your equity. The potential downside is that your home is the security for the loan, meaning it's on the hook if you can't repay your home equity loan according to the terms.
Debt resolution or debt settlement
If you’re struggling to repay debt, consider debt resolution. Debt resolution is negotiating with your lenders, asking them to accept less than the full amount owed.
You can negotiate with banks and credit card companies on your own, or get help from a professional debt settlement company. They can negotiate with your lenders on your behalf.
This method is worth considering if you’re already delinquent on some or all of your debts. Creditors usually won’t negotiate if you’re current, because they have no reason to believe you can’t keep making your payments.
If you had every intention of paying off your debts but now you can’t, debt resolution might help you. There are some pros and cons to debt resolution, so it’s best to talk to a debt consultant about your specific situation.
Insights into debt relief demographics
We looked at a sample of data from Freedom Debt Relief of people seeking debt relief during November 2024. The data provides insights about key characteristics of debt relief seekers.
FICO scores and enrolled debt
Curious about the credit scores of those in debt relief? In November 2024, the average FICO score for people enrolling in a debt settlement program was 586, with an average enrolled debt of $25,411. For different age groups, the FICO scores varied. For instance, those aged 51-65 had an average FICO score of 587 and an enrolled debt of $26,912. The 18-25 age group had an average FICO score of 550 and an enrolled debt of $14,146. No matter your age or debt level, it's reassuring to know you're not alone. Taking the step to seek help can lead you towards a brighter financial future.
Credit card debt - average debt by selected states.
According to the 2023 Federal Reserve Survey of Consumer Finances (SCF) the average credit card debt for those with a balance was $6,021. The percentage of families with credit card debt was 45%. (Note: It used 2022 data).
Unsurprisingly, the level of credit card debt among those seeking debt relief was much higher. According to November 2024 data, 88% of the debt relief seekers had a credit card balance. The average credit card balance was $15,618.
Here's a quick look at the top five states based on average credit card balance.
State | Average credit card balance | Average # of open credit card tradelines | Average credit limit | Average Credit Utilization |
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District of Columbia | $16,967 | 7 | $24,102 | 121% |
Arkansas | $12,989 | 9 | $28,791 | 83% |
Tennessee | $13,822 | 9 | $27,261 | 82% |
New Mexico | $11,860 | 8 | $25,731 | 82% |
Kentucky | $12,834 | 8 | $26,156 | 81% |
The statistics are based on all debt relief seekers with a credit card balance over $0.
Are you starting to navigate your finances? Or planning for your retirement? These insights can help you make informed choices. They can help you work toward financial stability and security.
Regain Financial Freedom
Seeking debt relief can be the first step toward financial freedom. Are you struggling with debt? Explore options for debt relief to regain control of your finances. It doesn't matter how old you are or what your FICO score or credit utilization is. Take the first step towards a brighter financial future today.
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Is there free help for debt?
You can contact a nonprofit credit and debt counselor for free help.
They can create a debt management plan that’s affordable, and negotiate terms with your lenders. With this method, you'll pay the counseling organization a modest monthly fee and make a single monthly payment to an account they create. The counseling agency will direct the money to your creditors.
Counselors can also review your finances and share strategies to reduce financial stress and improve your financial health.
What are the biggest debt payoff mistakes people make?
Avoiding help. Don’t let negative emotions or a feeling of shame cause you to hide from help. You can get free help from reputable companies online, or you can get professional help from a reputable debt settlement company or an accredited credit counselor. The smartest thing you can do is learn how to handle your money and create financial security for yourself. If you feel lost, reach out. At Freedom Debt Relief, our mission is to help you find the debt relief solution that’s right for you, even if it doesn’t include our services. If you are keeping up with your payments and don’t want a loan or debt settlement, but you can’t seem to get ahead, start by finding a nonprofit credit counselor or financial counselor. Two good places to check are the NFCC and the AFCPE®.
No budget. To get a handle on your finances, you need to be clear about the money coming in and the money going out. Your budget gives you knowledge and power. With a budget you can make an informed choice about every dollar you spend. Without a budget, you’ll be stuck on guesswork that might or might not have success.
Charging more. If you continue to use credit cards, your debt payoff will take longer. You might even chase your tail indefinitely. If you’re serious, and ready to get rid of your debt, close the credit card accounts. Keep one open for emergencies if you need to, but lock it so that it can’t be used impulsively. Use a debit card for everyday purchases.
Is debt settlement worth it?
The answer to that depends on several factors. Here are a few:
How much debt do you have, and how serious is your problem?
Do you have access to money you could offer your creditors?
What is your income tax bracket?
Are you willing to file bankruptcy?
Can you handle the stress of collection calls?
Is your credit score high, or has it already been damaged?
The reason to consider these factors is that consumers who are not in deep financial trouble usually have less drastic options available – like debt consolidation. And consumers who are entirely insolvent or are facing lawsuits may find bankruptcy the best choice. High earners in the top tax bracket pay more tax on forgiven debt than those in lower brackets.
If you’re on the fence, you can contact a debt consultant at a debt settlement company who is trained to answer your questions and help you calculate the cost of debt settlement. Only if you know the cost can you decide if debt settlement is “worth it.”
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